Ripples Through Time

January 3, 2022

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Life is full of stages and key events that impact an individual, like a ripple in the pond from a stone.

I experienced one such event on March 17th, 2019, while returning to college from spring break during my freshmen year. My best friend was driving while I was in the passenger seat when a truck struck the car on my side, pushing the car into a ditch. As a result, I sustained fractures to my mandible, clavicle, cheekbone, and ribs while also enduring a traumatic brain injury (TBI) to my right temporal and right frontal lobe. However, all of these facts were ones I didn’t know until weeks later, as I was unconscious from the moment of impact and in a coma for close to five days following the accident. My last memory from before the accident was three hours prior, and the subsequent strong memory following the accident was eight days later.

My accident marked a foundational event that would shape my life moving forward.

Initially, when I woke up and started my journey through rehab, I was angry for many reasons. I had just gained a sense of independence going off to college, I was beginning to do well in my studies, and I was forming new friendships. All of these things I lost–leaving me with a keen sense of despair, anger, confusion, and frustration. I felt defeated many times during rehab while attempting to work on my cognitive deficits with executive functioning, sequencing, sustained attention, and many other cognitive skills I had taken for granted before my TBI. The only things I could focus on were what I had lost, not the positives of my situation.

When going through a challenge such as a brain injury, the ability to think outside of myself and empathize with those around me became, at times, a laborious process. However, the positives were embedded alongside the challenges I faced. My accident brought my family closer together than ever before and set me on a new trajectory course for the plans of my life.

After my rehab and returning to college, I decided I wanted to give back and help individuals going through key life events and alterations to their stages of life similar to the ones I went through. Today, I am still in the process of pursuing that goal to help others, and I am completing a Master’s degree in Occupational Therapy to hopefully, one day, be a positive influence for others during their time of immense challenge.

It is approaching four years this spring since my accident, and the ripples from that event still impact my life and those around me. All it took was one moment, but I am now pursuing a career that I did not previously even know about, and my mother now works at the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska as a resource facilitator, which came about after being the primary caregiver with my TBI.

The ripples of life after a TBI may look different, but the pond’s beauty and life itself remain the same.

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Emri Hamiliton

Resource Facilitator Omaha Metropolitan Area
Emri Hamilton is a rebel with a cause and a deep commitment to helping others. Born and raised in South Omaha, she spent three years living in Germany before returning to the place she calls home. With a background in psychology, child welfare, social work, and counseling, Emri finds purpose in supporting individuals in need. Throughout her career in victim advocacy, she has developed a strong sense of purpose working with those navigating the Justice system. At the age of 23, Emri survived a brain aneurysm and hemorrhagic stroke, an experience that taught her the immense value of resiliency and community. This life-changing event deepened her desire to pursue a career that aligns with her lived experiences, helping others in meaningful ways. Outside of her professional life, Emri enjoys spending time with her loved ones and her handsome dog, Mellow. She stays balanced by indulging in her creative passions, whether through painting or working with flowers, and has a love for all things art.

Katie Freeman

Marketing & Special Events Intern

Katie is an Advertising and Public Relations major at the University of Nebraska - Lincoln in the college of Journalism and Mass Communications.

Katie was born and raised in Lincoln and decided to stay close to family by attending UNL. She enjoys spending time with friends and family, finding new recipes to try, and going shopping.

Katie is excited to be working with the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska team not only to learn about marketing, but also to help spread awareness about brain injury prevention and support.

Elle Stecher

Marketing & Special Events Coordinator

Phone: 402-683-0724

As the Marketing and Special Events Coordinator, Elle works to improve the BIA-NE’s reach and impact through marketing, events, and outreach via social media and the website.

Elle has a bachelor's degree from the University of Nebraska – Lincoln's College of Journalism and Mass Communication in Advertising and Public Relations and is working on her Master's Degree in Integrated Media Communications.

Elle lives in Lincoln with her husband and two sons, Ezra and Jack, in a historic home. Outside of work, Elle enjoys baking and working on restoration projects at home, as well as spending time with friends and family.

Paula Dodds

MBA Director of Operations

Phone: 402-706-0986

From her first office job at the age of 15, Paula fell in love with putting systems in place, organized, and easy to access. Granted, she started just one step above the mailroom as a file clerk, but she quickly grew that skill set to become a company trainer and then office manager by nineteen.

With over twenty-five years of administrative and team-building experience, Paula brings professionalism, innovation, and ingenuity to every project and event she works on. During Paula’s career, she has served the executive search, human resources, nonprofit, and healthcare markets, in addition to professional business and life coaches.

She lives in Omaha, Nebraska, and is currently raising four beautiful, independent daughters (preschool to grad school ages) with her very patient (and VERY outnumbered) fiancé, Matt.

Peggy Reisher, MSW

Executive Director

Phone: 402-890-0606

Peggy Reisher has worked in the field of brain injury for over 25 years. She helped establish the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska (BIA-NE) in 2009 and became the Executive Director in July 2013. Prior to being the Executive Director, she served as the Director of Programs and Services.

Peggy has a master’s degree in social work and worked 14 years on the traumatic brain injury unit at Madonna Rehabilitation Hospital in Lincoln, Neb. where she helped patients and families identify community resources upon discharge from the hospital.

Peggy is currently the President of the United States Brain Injury Association and is on the Munroe Meyer Institute Board of Directors.

Peggy grew up in St. Paul, NE, but has spent her adult life in Lincoln where she and her husband Tom raised their three children, Nathan, Amy, and Erica.

Gina Simanek, MA, LMHP

Support Group Volunteer Leader & Resource Facilitator Lincoln & Southeast Nebraska

Gina is a tenacious advocate of those with brain injury across the state of Nebraska. As a licensed mental health practitioner, consultant, educator, and volunteer, she was the first to ever provide outreach services in Lincoln and the entire state of Nebraska for individuals with Brain Injury (BI) and their families. Gina did this solo while working another full-time position to meet unmet needs for individuals with BI and their caregivers for 30 years and continues this work today.

In 2008, Gina contracted as the Nebraska State BI Ombudsperson and a Statewide Information and Referral Specialist for the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska (BIA-NE). In 2021, Gina joined BIA-NE full-time.

Gina has a background with administration and interpretation of various psychological and neuropsychological assessments; educates professionals, individuals, and families about brain injuries and mental health; is experienced in neurofeedback and biofeedback; facilitates mental/medical health support groups, served on several state advisory boards, and did a research study on brain injury coping in parents that gained recognition (2001 Student Research Award – Division 22, Rehabilitation Psychology), and has contributed to other brain injury research publications.

Outside of work, Gina is also active in biking long distances and assisting other runners and bikers to accomplish a marathon or long biking adventure successfully. She enjoys the outdoors, animals, artistic endeavors, and being around family, friends, and those who appreciate the value of assisting others in various ways.

Shir Smith

Resource Facilitator Western Nebraska

As someone who suffers from a brain injury and has overcome obstacles in her life, Shir Smith is ready and willing to help others. Shir has a passion for making people aware of brain injury and how it affects people’s lives. Shir always states, “There is no limit to your Sky, go Above and Beyond.”

Before joining the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska, Shir spent a large part of her life volunteering for and working with non-profit programs. From the Salvation Army to the Lincoln County Jail to Guardian Light Family Services, she saw needs that helped shape her passions and skills–guiding her to where she was meant to be–helping others to help others.

Shir is certified in a wide range of programs and training and brings a wealth of training and knowledge to the team. She has experience working with a Rape and Domestic Abuse Program as an advocate, starting a Wise Minds and an Incarcerated Victim Advocacy Program in the Lincoln County Jail, working with an Anti-Violence program for women, and working as a Sexual Assault Coordinator.

MenDi McCuiston

Peer Mentoring Program Coordinator • Resource Facilitator Western Nebraska

MenDi is the mother of a child that received a brain injury in a car accident at the age of sixteen and dealt with the repercussion of the school and court system treating her child as an uncontrollable child instead of treating the symptoms. She understands the struggles of a parent feeling helpless, hopeless, and abandoned by the “system.” Her goal with the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska is to educate others on the signs and symptoms of brain injury and offer support for those in the same position she found herself in seven years ago.

MenDi has a bachelor’s in behavioral science and has worked as a life coach, a family support worker, and has held various other positions within the non-profit realm helping individuals to set goals, recover from grief, and find their purpose. She has a passion for helping others and is inspired by those who do not let their situation keep them down.

MenDi was born and raised in North Platte, spent 14 years in McCook but missed home, and returned to North Platte where she lives with her husband. She has five children and six grandchildren who keep her busy and young at heart.

Michelle Meyer

Resource Facilitator Lincoln & Southeastern Nebraska

Michelle Meyer joined BIA–NE from Bryan Health, where she worked as an insurance verification specialist and patient registrar. Recognized for her training skills, rapport building, and commitment to excellence, Michelle enjoys work that requires empathy, innovation, and problem-solving and brings a diverse work history to the Resource Facilitation team.

Michelle continues her dedication to supporting individuals through empathy and guidance, leveraging her background in patient interaction.

As the primary caregiver and medical point of contact for her aging parents and mother-in-law, she knows that access to helpful resources is empowering and invaluable during a health crisis. She looks forward to sharing her hope and enthusiasm with BIA–NE clients throughout their recovery process.

Michelle lives in Lincoln with her husband and dog and enjoys gardening, art, and spending time with family and friends.

Marisa Mears

Resource Facilitator Western Nebraska

Marisa is a dedicated caregiver with a nursing degree from Mid Plains Community College, who has been in the nursing field since 1999. She has a passion for helping others and supporting their needs, which has led her to expand her skills from nursing to health and fitness, and now to focus on brain injury.

Marisa's greatest accomplishments in life are her three lovely children, who bring her immense joy and fulfillment. When she is not busy being a mom, Marisa enjoys spending quality time with her husband, traveling, and attending concerts.

Having witnessed the impact of brain injury both professionally and personally, Marisa is committed to raising awareness in her community. She aims to provide prevention education, advocacy, and support to those in need, in order to make a positive difference in the lives of individuals affected by brain injury. With her caring and compassionate nature, Marisa is dedicated to making a meaningful impact in the lives of others.

Teresa Larsen

Peer Mentoring Program Coordinator Panhandle Region

Teresa has been fascinated with the brain since high school and dreamed of being a Neurologist.

Teresa has a natural talent for teaching and explaining the complicated in an understandable and relatable way. As a mother of three, whom she home-educated, Teresa enlisted her teaching, nurturing, and management skills to raise her three children. Teresa has always had a strong desire to serve others. She volunteered with crisis pregnancy centers as well as domestic violence organizations. Teresa served her community in leadership positions such as Vice president of her local 4H council and as president of the Nebraska Extension Education Club, The Stateliners.

As a family support worker, Teresa grew and expanded her skills to be a "toolbox" for her clients. It's the "toolbox" mentality that helps her bring a multitude of resources to each situation to bring about the best for those with whom she works.

Brenda Horner

Resource Facilitator Central Nebraska

Brenda’s husband had a hemorrhagic stroke in 2009 while serving in the military, so she understands brain injury from a spouse's/caregiver’s perspective. Over the years, Brenda has learned to navigate family life, military life, and the VA system regarding her husband's brain injury. She has 20 years of experience working with people of all ages and disabilities.

Brenda also has ample experience working in and with various Special Education programs across the state of Nebraska. Previously, she helped families as a Service Coordinator for The Early Development Network as well as working in hospice and as a Registered Behavior Technician.

Brenda grew up in York, NE. She currently resides in Grand Island, NE with her husband and has 2 daughters, 2 sons-in-law, and 2 granddaughters that keep her busy in her spare time.

Anna Cole

Resource Facilitator Special Projects

Anna’s focus on and passion for care is evident throughout her life—beginning with her early career as a Registered Nurse. She then cared for and raised four wonderful sons as a stay-at-home mom. When her children reached school age, she accepted various positions in their schools, all of which involved caring for and helping hundreds of children. Prior to joining the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska, Anna most recently served as the full-time Congregational Care Coordinator at her church.

As a freshman at an out-of-state college, Anna’s youngest son was involved in a serious car accident that resulted in a brain injury. Finding and accessing providers and resources to assist in his recovery and successful return to school ignited Anna's passion to assist others facing a similar challenge.

Anna grew up in New Hudson, Michigan, but has lived in Omaha for over 35 years. She and her husband Blake are empty-nesters with their dog, Jack. Anna has four awesome grown sons, two beautiful daughters-in-law, and two wonderful grandchildren.

Heather Carroll

Resource Facilitator Omaha & Lincoln Metropolitan Areas

Heather Carroll is a passionate and creative woman who loves her twins and family. She is active in her church community where she serves teaching Sunday School, and as a care pastor, board member, and part of the worship team (where she is a vocalist and plays the guitar and violin).

Heather retired from the Air Force after 22 years. While serving in the Air Force, Heather worked as a Nationally Registered Emergency Medical Technician (NREMT). During her service, she was stationed in Cheyenne Wyoming, Denver Colorado, Minneapolis Minnesota, and Lincoln Nebraska. Some highlights from her service have been touring with the premier Tops-In-Blue performance team where she was afforded the opportunity to represent the Air Force's Finest performers, entertaining the troops abroad. She deployed to Kuwait in 2007 to serve and support the global war on terrorism where she managed and led a team in the Contingency Aeromedical Staging Facility. Upon arriving at Lincoln Air National Guard, she served in the Chemical, Biological, Radiological, Nuclear, and High Yield Explosives (CBRNE) Enhanced Response Force. She retired as a Master Sergeant (MSgt) from the Lincoln Air National Guard in April of 2016.

In 2016, after retirement, Heather began a new pathway for her education in Psychology. She successfully completed her bachelor’s in psychology in 2018 with distinction. While attending school, she was also employed by Bellevue University working as an Evaluations Specialist, Research Analyst, and Manager of the Military Veteran Services Center (MVSC). Heather is passionate for mental health and helping others heal from past experiences and traumas. She is currently pursuing her master’s in mental health clinical counseling where she desires to continue to service the veterans and others with their traumatic experiences and injuries.

Heather is no stranger to Resource Facilitation having spent the last four years as the manager of the MVSC, where she helped veterans get and remain connected to the resources in the community that support them with their service-connected disabilities. She managed the staff and partners of the facility to ensure they streamlined processes and procedures, delivered excellent customer service, and met the veterans where they were at, ensuring the team left them better than when they walked into the facility.

Heather has more than 30 years of serving others and their medical needs and getting people connected to the resources in the community. In the Air Force, she assisted in educating and training peers and patients. At Bellevue University, she ensured veterans received the resources and programs available to them for the last four years.

Lastly, Heather is very excited to be on the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska team and is looking forward to serving those with brain injuries as well as helping to inform and educate the community and partners in the community.

Rachel Brandenburg

Resource Facilitator Omaha Metropolitan & Northeast Region

Rachel brings over 20 years of experience in healthcare to her role. Before pursuing higher education, she dedicated over a decade as a Certified Nursing Assistant, providing compassionate care that helped individuals maintain independence while addressing their social and emotional needs. She holds a Bachelor's degree in Healthcare Management and a Master's in Public Health, with extensive experience assisting individuals and caregivers through complex physical and social health challenges.

Rachel lives south of Plattsmouth in a small lake community with her husband, son, two daughters, and two dogs. She enjoys crafting, cooking, staying active, and supporting her children’s various extracurricular activities.

A caregiver and volunteer at heart, Rachel serves annually on her community’s Election Committee. She also contributes her expertise as a member of the ENOA Senior Companion Program Advisory Council and as Treasurer for the Keep Cass County Beautiful Board of Directors.