
Sixteen years ago, Brenda’s life changed without warning. While she was out of town with her daughters, her husband, Greg, then 34 and active-duty Army National Guard, experienced a hemorrhagic stroke. He was rushed from York to UNMC in Omaha, where Dr. Bill Thorell performed five brain surgeries. Greg had a 1% chance of survival.
What people do not see is everything that came next.
Greg’s recovery became a long and unpredictable journey. It involved years of relearning, adapting, managing memory and executive function challenges, and rebuilding a life permanently altered by brain injury. Seizures were eventually controlled, but the effects did not go away. Brenda, suddenly a full-time caregiver, carried the responsibility without the support she needed.
Despite the challenges that followed his stroke, Greg has continued to show incredible resilience. He remained in the military and completed 23 years of service, a testament to his determination and strength. After retiring, he successfully transitioned into a new career as a Biomedical Technician. His journey reflects the reality that life after a brain injury can still be full, meaningful, and forward-moving.
There were medical complications, career changes, deployments, and the quiet weight of worry that caregivers often hold alone. Their daughters stepped in to help far more than Brenda ever wanted them to, but the experience shaped them into compassionate adults who now work as Occupational Therapists.
What you do not see is the strength it takes for an individual with a brain injury, and for every family member doing their best to support them.
Brenda now works at the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska because she never wants another family to feel as unsupported as hers once did. She walks beside caregivers and individuals with brain injury, offering the guidance she once needed herself.
Brain injury is lifelong. The need for support is lifelong too.
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