
When MenDi’s daughter was 16, an accident left her with a brain injury that neither of them fully understood at the time. At the emergency room, doctors told her daughter had a mild concussion and advised returning only if she experienced drowsiness, confusion, or vomiting. They offered reassurance, but no roadmap.
“There was no mention of watching for vision issues, ringing in the ears, sleep disturbances or any indication that she could face an extended recovery period or that it may take time for other symptoms to appear.”
What people don’t see is what came next.
There were behavioral changes that seemed sudden and confusing. Physical symptoms that appeared unexpectedly. Emotional struggles that were difficult to explain to teachers, friends, and even medical providers. And there was the quiet, heavy responsibility of trying to interpret it all without the information or support her family needed.
These challenges shaped the years that followed. They shaped MenDi as a mother. And they reshaped every part of her daughter’s life as she worked to navigate a future that looked different than the one she imagined at 16.
Today, MenDi serves as a Resource Facilitator at the Brain Injury Association of Nebraska, helping families understand the very things she once had to figure out alone. She supports individuals with brain injury and their loved ones as they navigate shifting symptoms, school and work challenges, behavioral changes, and the long-term impact that professionals often overlook.
She knows firsthand that families are often left without answers. And she believes that no one should face the uncertainty of brain injury without guidance and support.
Years later, her daughter is an adult with a daughter of her own, who inspires her to keep pushing forward and be the best version of herself she can be. Some days are harder than others, but each day is a gift. Their family chooses to focus on the positive moments, on growth, and on the resilience born from everything she has endured.
MenDi’s experience reminds us that what you don’t see after a brain injury is often the hardest part. The symptoms that evolve. The behaviors people misinterpret. The emotional weight families carry in silence.
Her story reflects the reality of countless Nebraskans and the essential role BIA-NE plays in providing understanding, connection, and hope.
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